What do you need to make you happy? - when asked this question, most people answer with reference to a person, an event, a prospect...even the dictionary defines this as an adjective characterized by something...a feeling felt over something...My question: can people be happy inside? can people just be happy? no event , no person, no incident....happy to be alive? happy to be where they are? happy to be how they are? happy in their present moment?..so happiness is characterized by something...by something within us = life, by something about us= place and health.... take a moment...breathe!! clear your mind and feel the happiness within.....
TRY - someone said this where disturbance in the mind begins...so stop trying...and just DO it...do it! give it your 100%....if you DO it with your 100% there will be no regret....there will be no looking back...
Opposite values complement each other - you need to experience the bad to know how valuable the good is...people that have seen good times are fortunate. People who have seen good times are blessed. But even more blessed are people who have seen the bad times too. They are able to appreciate and value the good. Truly appreciate the good for all its worth. But in these trying times, we tend to forget to value and appreciate when there is good and complain during the bad times. Attitude and Gratitude. Be aware and appreciate all there is to appreciate.
Our parents are the reason the way we are - true enough! They shape the way we see the world, they shape the way we react to the world...but I read in " You can heal your life" by Lousie L hay, that we choose our parents. We choose them because in this world they were the best fit for us to learn the lessons we have chosen to learn. If it weren't for them, we would not be equipped to perceive and react in a way, that teaches us what we are seeking to learn. So thank you Ma and Pa.
Live and Let Live - in the same way, you would not want anyone to mock or question your beliefs or way of being, don't question or mock others. Everyone chooses to be who they are, for which you are not responsible. If they come to you for help , help them find themselves...introduce them to your way of being and let them find their own way. You are only an aide to others not them. Advise and Respect.
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